Prepare for dissapointment, but strive for success…

Our motto is, “success is the best revenge”.  We say that because we are confident that using the energy that one feels during a break up for your benefit of health rather than for self pity will lead to success.  When we as a species are disappointed we are given two choices, fight or flight.  Why should you run away (flight), when you can face your fears and learn to fight?  Fighting depression and low self esteem is a worthy cause.
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This attitude will hep you cope with disappointment to the extent that you will be able to achieve great success and inner strength. Striving to better yourself during bouts of sadness will help you heal. When one is hit with emotional trauma, a certain focus arises from within that can be used for the benefit of one’s self.  Sure, many use this focus to concentrate deeply on their loss.  The question is why?  If you have a chance to use your focus for success, then why not use it?  Breakups  are an opportunity to have a relationship with yourself.  Think about it.

Crying over spilled milk is fine for the first few days, or even weeks, of a break up.  The problem is that you will never feel better unless you try to get up, shake off the dirt and get back on the horse.  When we say horse we do not mean dating.  We are talking about exercise, eating right and getting a life.  Sure, you are no longer a couple, boo hoo.  The point is NOT to become a couple again.  If you take care of yourself, relationships will come to you.

Your focus should be on becoming a stronger and more healthy individual.  When you pursue success, dating and relationships are a breeze.  Remember, prepare for disappointment, but strive for success.  Preparing for dissapointment involves setting realistic goals.  Smalls goals at first and larger ones as time progresses. In the end you will be successful, just because you tried.  Trying helps you heal.  Trying teaches you the true meaning of the relationship that has just ended.

“I’m not saying that disappointment isn’t valid, but rather, by examining the root of why something or someone disappoints us, we can discover a lot about ourselves and find peace of mind.”

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