Breaking up? Make it simple!

Ok, ok, we talked about how to heal if someone broke up with you.  Now it’s time to talk about breaking up with someone in a compassionate and honest way.  It’s not going to be easy, obviously, but it can be quick and straightforward.  There is no pain greater than being trapped, especially when freedom looms at close range.  To free yourself and your partner it is necessary to break up NOW, so that you can move forward. 

Ironically, the person you are breaking up with will also move forward.  It may not seem like it at the moment, but any breakup leads to a new beginning for both of you.  Think about what they need to hear to feel better about the situation, but for god’s sake be honest.  Honesty will set you free in ways you cannot imagine.  Think a year from now when you are breaking up.  Don’t think about the moment.  That is the best advice we can give you.  The article below will explain everything.  Again, if breaking up is what you will eventually do, then do it now.  Don’t give anyone the impression that you will stay when you know you won’t.  Many people try to sabotage relationships to avoid confrontation. That is the worst thing you can do. Getting someone to break up with you just cuz you can’t face the inevitable will haunt you for the rest of your days.

One last thing, the article claims you can break up without conflict.  Please, that is almost impossible.  The odds of their being peace after an honest breakup are the same as winning the lotto - TWICE!  Prepare yourself for conflict and hang on for your life.  It is worth it in the end.  Freedom is important and so is living where you want to live.  Be compassionate and think about the future…

“If you’re ready to end a relationship, consider how you can break up without conflict…”

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