Dump somebody lately? Don’t feel guilty…
July 28, 2006
Look there are always two sides to every break up story. All we know is that you should tell your partner the truth. Especially if that truth involves breaking up. Why prolong it? If you feel guilty, it’s natural. Think of their future and for goodness sakes, read this article…
“Today there are plenty of things that can distract from the relationship with our spouse or the one we love and unfortunately not always are they the same person. Most people enter a relationship with the greatest of intentions and then life comes in and beats the living hell out of both of them. Is that fair?”
That is easy to say, but guilt does not go away just because it is natural.
I am not really in that serious of a relationship, but I want to break up with my S.O. because I don’t want to continue to hurt him. I was honest with him the other day and said I don’t think it is fair for me to try to be with you if I still want to date other people.
I tried to explain to him that it is not his fault. I just don’t think he is right for me and I am right for him. It’s hard though because he has a hard time letting me go-meaning he always insists we can work it out, but I just don’t want to try to work it out with him. I have not wanted to be with him for quite awhile, and out of guilt and loneliness would go back to him.
I really truly just want to get on with my life and have him accept that it is over. He probably doesn’t believe me because we broke up and got back together so many times.